Lasting Love Doesnt Happen By Accident
As a relationship, compatibility and communication strategist, I guide audiences discover the blueprint for lasting love. Teaching how self awareness and emotional intelligence create the foundation for true compatibility.
I help people understand who they are—and why they’re unstoppable.
Through my speaking engagements and workshops, I bring clarity, connection, and strategy to the heart of human relationships. I don’t just talk about change — I decode it. My talks blend psychology, personality science, and intuitive wisdom to show audiences how to transform self-awareness into magnetism, and relationships into strategy.
From corporate leadership to modern love, my message is universal:
Compatibility isn’t chemistry — it’s alignment, clarity, and design.
Below are some of my most requested keynote and workshop topics for organizations, communities, and events.
“The Magnetic Presence Method,” “The Science of Compatibility,” “The 4S Framework for Emotional Intelligence”
RESILIENCE & CHANGE
BECOME THE PERSON FOR YOUR PERSON
“How to Use Self-Awareness to Break Old Patterns and Build Secure, Aligned Love”
Overview
In this transformative keynote, Jena Jake takes audiences on a journey from emotional autopilot to conscious design. Drawing from advanced personality data, attachment theory, and her signature Four S’s Framework™ — Safe, Seen, Soothed, and Supported — she helps people understand how their inner wiring shapes their outer world.
Jena reveals how personality drives, emotional triggers, and attachment needs intersect to influence who we choose, how we love, and why we repeat the same relational patterns — until we consciously break them.
This is not another talk about love; it’s a strategic guide to becoming emotionally secure, self-aware, and ready for a relationship that reflects your growth
• Decode Your Attachment Style: Understand how your emotional blueprint shapes attraction and communication.
• The Four S’s Framework™: Learn to create relationships that feel Safe, Seen, Soothed, and Supported.
• Personality Meets Emotion: Discover how your natural drives and values influence your relationship patterns.
• Break the Pattern: Identify emotional habits that block real connection — and how to shift them.
• Become the Person for Your Person: Move from self-awareness to self-mastery and attract from alignment, not need.
SPIRITUALITY
HOUSE OF JULES PRESENTS
THE AVA COLLECTION: CREATE YOUR MATE
“Design Your Ideal Relationship — Then Become the Person Who Can Have It”
Overview
Part of The AVA Collection by House of JULES, this signature system combines psychology, strategy, and soul. Created by Jena Jake, it guides participants through a powerful process of designing, understanding, and embodying their ideal relationship.
Using The Avatar Workbook and Date Reflection Sheet, participants move from emotional autopilot to conscious design — learning how to decode their attachment patterns, clarify what they truly need, and become aligned with the kind of love they want to attract.
This is compatibility as art form — where science meets soul, and strategy meets self-awareness.
What’s Inside
• The Avatar Workbook: A luxury self-awareness guide to design your ideal partner — their personality, values, lifestyle, emotional style, and relational patterns — and reflect on who you are for that person today.
• Your Personality & Attachment Blueprint: Discover your emotional wiring and relational drives using advanced insights (without the jargon).
• The Four S’s Framework™: The emotional foundation of The AVA Collection — learning to recognize and cultivate relationships where you feel Safe, Seen, Soothed, and Supported.
• The Date Reflection Sheet: A post-date awareness tool to journal red flags, green flags, sensations, and emotional alignment — so you can date consciously, not reactively.
• Alignment Integration Plan: Practical steps to evolve into the version of yourself who can sustain the relationship you’ve designed.
The AVA Collection by House of JULES
The AVA Collection is the strategic relationship division of House of JULES, dedicated to helping individuals design connection with intention.
It’s where personality meets presence — a fusion of behavioral psychology, luxury lifestyle design, and emotional evolution.
Perfect For
• Singles ready to date with purpose
• Women’s retreats and high-end coaching experiences
• Matchmakers and relationship professionals seeking a structured tool
• Couples exploring growth and conscious alignment
Key Takeaways from The AVA Collection: Create Your Mate
• Design with Intention: Learn to create a partner avatar based on values, communication, and real-life compatibility, not fantasy.
• Decode Your Blueprint: Understand how your attachment style and personality patterns shape attraction and behavior.
• Date with Awareness: Use the Date Reflection Sheet to evaluate emotional alignment after each interaction — noting red flags, green flags, and the 4 S’s (Safe, Seen, Soothed, Supported).
• Align Before You Attract: Discover how becoming the calm, confident version of yourself changes the quality of love you draw in.
• Sustain Secure Love: Learn the emotional strategies that keep relationships strong, balanced, and deeply fulfilling.
“You don’t find your person; you become the match they’re meant for.”